Monday, April 28, 2008

Catching up

I know I disappeared unceremoniously from Blogland, but it was a crazy week. Here's a rundown:

Monday: cleaned and got ready to pick up my mom from the airport that evening.
Tuesday: Quin and I left Maren with my mom and went on our very first kid-less getaway since Maren was born! That's over three years, folks! It was long overdue. We drove up to a small town called Leadville to explore and stay in a B&B. More on the trip later.
Wednesday: continued our little trip, then went home later that afternoon. That morning my grandparents drove up from Southern Colorado to take advantage of my mom being here and stayed at my house Wednesday night.
Thursday: Grandparents left, dropped Mom off at the airport. Came home and did some shopping to get ready for party-palooza on Saturday. Found out some terrible news--a dear friend who lives up the street lost her baby, at around 38 weeks, so basically full-term. It was completely unexpected and quite devastating news, as you might imagine.
Friday: Continued to get ready for the baby shower and other party on Saturday. Worried that the topic of conversation at the baby shower would be the tragic events of the week. Worried that no one would come to either party.
Saturday: Had the baby shower. It was fun, the decorations were cute and the food was delish! Attendance was really low--we sent out over 40 invitations and we had maybe a dozen there, including the hosts and guest of honor. We only had about that many RSVP in the first place, and half of those were regrets. Get REALLY PEEVED at the pathological inability to pay attention to an RSVP that seems to be the norm these days. Worry that this does not bode well for my party that evening, a Scentsy open house for which I sent out 25 invitations and had only a small handful of people RSVP. Get ready for party #2 of the day, drive all the way downtown to pick up the consultant, and then only 3 people showed up. They were 3 good friends and I'm thrilled that they came and we had fun chatting and sniffing wax, but 3 out of 25 is a pretty poor showing and I'll admit that I was a bit embarrassed. Nothing kills your self-esteem like inviting 25 people to a party and then having only 3 attend.
Sunday: Maren wakes up at 5:30 a.m. after having stayed up past 11:00 p.m. the night before. Try hard to shake it off and plan a last-minute Sunday School lesson, attend 3 hours of church, attempt to clean up the mess from Saturday's activities, and work on the swap that is due out today.

So yeah, it was a bit crazy and blogging just didn't quite fit in the schedule. This week won't be much better, I'm afraid--we're leaving on Wednesday to go to Utah for a few days for my brother's college graduation. The house is still a disaster, the swap isn't quite ready to go, I have errands to run, laundry to do and suitcases to pack, and tomorrow is a graveside service for my friend's sweet baby. I'd like to squeeze in one more blog entry before I leave--I had a great junkin' day last week and I've been itching to share photos! That means I've got to get moving!

14 comments:

  1. My, that is just terrible about the baby. Jack was born at 38 weeks. :-(

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  2. What a week,lady! I'm so sorry for your friend who lost her baby! How heartbreaking!
    As for the poor showing at your parties...I learned a long time ago, when I would be embarrassed for the same reason...that I'm not the one who should be embarrassed! Heidi, you did nothing wrong and it's your would be guests who didn't rsvp who should be embarrassed by their lack of social skills! I'm sure you had a wonderful time with the guests who did have the consideration to rsvp and come for a great time!
    Hope this week proves to be a bit calmer for you!

    Jan

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  3. What a week---and I'm truly sorry about your friends tragic loss :(

    RSVP's are a huge pet peeve of mine as well. Happened at my wedding, we invited 150 people, had about 125 rsvp and 90 show up---and you know the cost of the dinners so as a young couple with basically no money--those dinners we paid for could have gone to a much better cause than ignorant friends and family. Happened again with my sons first big boys party-at the bowling alley--NO ONE showed up but our best friends, no kids, no rsvps. Since then we just really have had family parties for the kids because Ididn't want them to have self esteem issues if no one came. grrrrrr

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  4. Anonymous10:54 AM

    My senior year of high school my parents decided I should have an after-prom party so everybody wouldn't be out just driving around. (This was before the days of a parents committee organizing after-prom events.) I didn't send invites, just "spread" the word, but this was a small high school so that didn't take long. NO ONE came. Literally. Not one person came to my party. And this has affected my desire and ability to entertain to this day.

    --Mary aka MAMinCR from YSQ

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  5. I am tired just reading about your week. My sweet firend that I worked with before I got pregnant, threw me a baby shower and invited all the people that we worked with together. NO ONE CAME. Just me, my Mom and my friend in a room with 25 folding chairs. We absolutely cracked up and had fun with it, but my friend was hot and P.O.'ed at everyone else. She spent a lot of time and money on that shower for me. But, I still remember it as my best baby shower. ;o)

    Important question: Did Mom get any Jadeite in her suitcase???

    Have a safe trip. To say the least.

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  6. Anonymous11:15 PM

    My deepest sympathies to your friend who lost her baby. Their grief must be horrible. That was my greatest fear with my last pregnancy. My prayers are with her.

    On a lighter note, enjoy your time with your family.

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  7. Wow! That is a whirlwind. So many ups and downs to boot. Glad you were able to get away with your hubby. Prayers for your friend.

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  8. Hey heidi! I just linked to your blog from Rebecca's! How fun. I love blogging.

    I thought your shower was fantastic! I've been telling people how cute it was. I'm not sure why the low showing...and then there were some stragglers. But, seriously, you and Lindsay did such a great job. Everything was so cute!

    p.s. are you going to the service today? I'm lookig for some carpoolers if you and Maren want to come with us, we have room.

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  9. Oh don't get me started on RSVPing... makes me crazy! But I am noticing that the new trend is "regrets only". They are more apt to call then if they aren't coming.
    Can't wait to see your thrifty finds Heidi!

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  10. Hey! I used to serve up in Leadville (highest altitude church building in the church is there).

    Depending on how you drove there (i.e. from Avon) that can be a scary, but truly beautiful drive!

    Love that place.

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  11. Hi Heidi. I have an award for you over on my blog, come check it out when you have time. Hope all is well with you!

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  12. I found you via Aimee (above commenter). I think you are FABULOUS! I'm coming back for more!

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  13. Oh Heidi I feel for you and your week, when it rains.... It sounds as though it will be crazy for a while yet. Enjoy your trip and hopefull you can relax a bit!

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  14. So sorry I couldn't attend your party on Saturday, I would have been there if I had been here promise. I am also so sorry for our friend and er loss and was sorry I couldn't be here for the service.

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