Thursday, September 23, 2010

Book Page Leaf Wreath



I made it 32 years, one month and 16 days before losing my first grandparent--I think that's a pretty good run, don't you?  My paternal grandfather passed away last Wednesday as we were driving home from our visit to Utah. I'm so lucky that I had 32 years, one month and 16 days of my life to know him. Monday morning we loaded up the car again (didn't even bother to put the suitcases away from the Utah trip) and drove four hours to southern Colorado for the funeral events.

My Papa with a teeny-tiny newborn Maren
His passing was bittersweet for us all: I'm sad at the knowledge that I won't get to see my Papa Morgan again in this life--it will feel strange to go to my grandparent's house and not find him there with a big hug, smile and kind words for me. At the same time, he lived nearly 87 years, has children, grandchildren and even a few great-grandchildren; he lived a long, full life and he deserved to rest. His viewing was Monday evening and the funeral services were Tuesday around mid-day. Every single one of his descendants was there, and I can think of no greater way to honor him than the fact that we had a genuinely good time being together, despite the circumstances.

The Mister had to be back for work on Wednesday morning, so unfortunately our trip was a quick one and we returned home late Tuesday night--there wasn't even time for small-town thrifting at my favorite haunts or a guacamole tostada & tall Dr. Pepper at our favorite little hole-in-the-wall Mexican food joint. Yesterday I ignored the piles of laundry & suitcases and met some friends at the science museum for several hours so the kids could play, which meant today I finally had time to begin to get this house back into some semblance of order. I've still got work to do but I think I can finally think about blogging again now that we have some clean clothes and the kitchen table isn't piled six inches deep with mail and newspapers.

All the long hours in the car recently means that I've gotten to read a lot of magazines. In the October Martha Stewart Living there was an ad for this wreath:
It was created by Emily Morris and is the winning entry in a contest put on by Martha & The UPS Store and honestly, I thought it was the most interesting thing in the whole magazine! (Usually the October MSL is my favorite but this one was a total snooze). There are step-by-step instructions over here on Martha's website, as well as a leaf template so you can make your own. I've already made two different book page wreaths this year and this one might have to be #3! I'm going to be good and make myself wait until the rest of the laundry is done and we have some groceries, though!

9 comments:

  1. So sorry to hear about your grandpa...I'm glad you have so many great memories of him. That is a treasure!
    And I love the wreath...what a cool idea!

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  2. I am so sorry for your loss but you have certainly assessed beautifully how blessed you were to have him for so long. My first grandparent died (paternal grandfather) when I was still in college. He was the best and I regret that I didn't have time to know him better. I was still a kid after all and never thought I'd lose him so early. Anyway, I know it is never easy to lose a loved one but how nice that you enjoyed the time with family and treasured the memories you have.

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  3. I am sorry about your Grandfather too. My Grandmother didn't want a funerals, so there hasn't been any closure and it is hard. When I go to her house, I feel like she is just not home. I am glad that you have such fond wonderful memories of your Papa.

    As for reading in the car...HURL...I cannot do it. I get so car sick. I am the driver, never the passenger, for that very reason.

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  4. Anonymous10:49 PM

    I'm sorry for your loss. That pic of Maren and her GGpa is so sweet...a treasure now, I'm sure.

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  5. You are a lucky girl to have had a special grandparent all of these years. I'm sorry for your loss, I'm sure he'll be missed.

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  6. So sorry about your grandpa... what a nice tribute to him!

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  7. So sorry to hear about your Grandpa. All of my grandparents are gone (for a few years now) and I miss them all still.

    I agree about the October MSL. And somehow I ended up with TWO of them. Sigh . . .

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  8. ((HUGS)) I am so sorry for your loss. :( But I think it's great you had so much time with him. I grew up with no grandfathers, one passed away in 1965 (I was born in 1983) and the other was either in the 60s or 70s. My children thankfully have one grandfather, as my dad isnt around. I'm glad they are getting to spend time with Mikes dad.

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  9. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Grandfather. He sounds like an amazing man and what a special picture of him with Marin.

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