I'll be upfront. This is plainly a Poor, Pitiful Me post. Nothing interesting here, no fabulous projects or cool thrifted stuff, just some complaining.
This is what my laundry room looks like right now. Yes, that is dirt you can see below the metal floor joists. Suffice it to say, we're not exactly having the best few weeks ever.
In the last three weeks, there hasn't been a single day when one of us hasn't been sick. Maren started it the first Monday back to school after Christmas break, then The Mister was hit with the flu for the remainder of that week. Porter was sick on Sunday and then Monday afternoon Maren came home sick again and spent the remainder of the week on the couch, ill with not one but two strains of the flu. On Sunday I woke up sick and the next day, Monday, Porter woke up with it too and we're still suffering. I don't think Porter and I actually have the flu, just a really nasty respiratory/sinus infection. And I have a big canker sore, can I whine about that one too? Compounding the illness is the issue that I haven't had a decent night's sleep in weeks. While the kids have been sick they've been up multiple times per night, and guess who they want? I feel like a zombie. A hacking, sniffling zombie.
And then there's the issue of the basement. Two weeks ago we noticed that our sump pump was going off repeatedly, all day long. The Mister ventured down into the crawl space below the house to check things out and found it wet. We called the insurance and a plumber, who found that the pipe leading from the sump out of the house had a crack in it, so the water was leaking right back down. Because this was behind a wall, we're not sure how long it was leaking but it was long enough to completely rot the subfloor in that corner of the room and cause mold to grow. The day after the plumber arrived, a recovery team came in to get everything dried out and to remove all the moldy and rotted materials.
Once they finally finish (which will likely be sometime next week) we will have to get a reconstruction team to come and fix it all. They'll have to put in new drywall, retexture the walls and repaint, put in new subfloor, remove the remaining vinyl flooring and install new vinyl flooring. I think we're looking at another 2 weeks or so of work once they can finally get started.
In the meantime, I have no washer and drier, which I realize is not an emergency-level crisis. Plenty of people live in places with no W/D and survive just fine. For crying out loud, we didn't have one the first 2 years of our marriage because we lived in an apartment so it's not like I'm not capable of hauling my clothes somewhere else to be cleaned. Having sick children and being ill yourself doesn't make that task particularly pleasant, however, and I'm lucky to have plenty of friends who have offered the use of their washers, for which I am truly very grateful!
I realize that everybody has problems, most of which are probably far greater than my own. You know that saying about how you probably wouldn't want to trade troubles with anybody else, right? By next week Porter and I will feel better, progress will be made on the basement issues, and I will start drugging my children if they don't quit waking me up in the night. Okay, I'm kidding about that last one. Maybe.
If you've made it through all this whining, please feel free to leave a complaining and whining comment of your own! Go ahead and let it all out and I won't judge you or tell you to quit being a complainer--that's what friends do. Then we can all just pull up our big-girl pants and get on with dealing with our troubles, right? So, spill it.
I am empathetic to your situation!! I do a load of laundry every day, and am lost when we have had to replace our appliances (which is often, b/c I use them so much). I can't imagine having all the other stuff pulled out as well. Sorry to hear about the sickies as well -- it seems like every family is due the never-ending cycle every few years or so.
ReplyDeleteNow for my own rant -- I am sooo pissed I am working right now!! I can't believe how completely incapable people are without having somebody hold their friggin hand. My boss did not step up to guide the team, so everything fell apart. Then, the problem people get all whiney about not understanding deadlines, different directions they receive, people doing their work, and have no acknowledgement for the fact that I am working again because of your sorry butt! Anyway, I don't want to fill up your whole page with all the lame details, but I can't adequately vent on facebook b/c I am friends with people from work! Thank you for allowing me a forum!!
So sorry Heidi. I can't imagine a sick family and no washer. Such a bummer. Praying you all get well soon, so you can get a full nights sleep. A tired Mommy is not a happy Mommy.
ReplyDeleteYou know what - complain all you want. I think you (we) deserve it. I am so SICK of everyone saying - Oh things will get better and This too shall pass, blah blah blah. Sure, someday it will be better but today SUCKS. And maybe the next two weeks will SUCK. I know that for a fact. Curtis had the starting last Tuesday is still suffering with a cough. The Bean has a sore throat and drainage. Because I am SuperWoman (ha) I avoided it all and kept on going, going, going taking care of everyone in my life and then BAM yesterday, I got run over by a truck. Coughing, sore throat, drainage, etc. The Mister at my house is "over" anyone being sick so he as abandoned me. I can't go see my Mom since there is a "no fever, no cough" rule. :( And, don't even get me started on no laundry - lord, I do laundry every single day and cannot imagine having to do the laundry mat thing again. Especially with sick kids in the house that wipe snot on their jammies (ok, that is me). I know things will get better for you one of these days, but until then, it is going to SUCK. I do hope you all get to feeling better. Although, I must admit, is is nice to feel sorry for yourself and have a little pity party when you are sick. You and I need to call a Whambulance Wah, Wah, Wah......
ReplyDeleteEveryone already knows about my moaning about my parts falling out, so I will just say that having your house torn apart surely is the pits. At least it's fixable, eh? Go to Joann to console yourself. LOL
ReplyDeletePS Whose houses are they taking all these pictures of for these house number captchas? CREEPY.
Whine away! You certainly have reason. I have had what might be the flu but might not, I spent about a week and a half dealing with it and missing work. I've been back at work all week but I'm still dealing with the congestion and now I'm getting hoarse again.
ReplyDeleteWasher and dryer. Total emergency! Whine on!
ReplyDeleteSo sorry you are going through all of that. Can't imagine not having your washer and dryer especially with sick kids.
ReplyDeleteI babysat not once but twice last week for my youngest daughters family who have all had the flu at some point during that time. So I figure it's just a matter of time til I get it.
I'm hoping you feel better soon and your basement problems get taken care of, too.
Let it out, sister! No sense in keeping it inside. Owning a home is a constant headache. We had new doors, siding and roofs put on but all at different times. Seems they didn't properly join up something and it leaked during HUrricane Sandy INSIDE the wall. The paint literally slid down the wall. Gross.
ReplyDeleteAnd people at work annoy me. I mean COME ON. Just put your dirty glasses in the dishwasher. It is right next to the sink and I seriously don't want to touch your germy stuff.
The end. Big hugs!!
HA! Excellent post and awesome invitation to your friends to Whine On....Shara's right---today SUCKS, but tomorrow might just suck more, so you just have to endure...and it won't be endure to the end...at least not yet! Love, Your Mom. P.S. I love you. P.P. S. I hope you can print your blog off someday so you'll remember this when your kids are teenagers and being buttheads. This problem will seem minor then--it's all a matter of perspective!
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