Book report

I recently read a most fascinating book: Who Are You People? by Shari Caudron. I first read a review of this book in Entertainment Weekly and it piqued my interest enough that I put it on hold at the library. It was a fun read and the Sociology-major nerd in me found it fascinating. The premise is that the author felt that she lacked passion, so she went around the country spending time with different groups of people who exhibited a real passion for what they did, collected, etc. From pigeon racers to rabid Josh Groban fans to Barbie collectors to people who dress up in furry costumes and more, she explored each group and what it was that made people so drawn to it, and why they had such passion for these seemingly bizarre things. At one point she even visited a Social Psychology professor to talk about the psychological reasons behind all of this fanatical passion. It all comes down to belonging, to fitting in, to finding your place. The social psychologist, Anne, said:

“That sense of rapture you talk about? That’s related to connectedness, to meaning. It’s important for people to feel connected, to feel they’re not alone in life. Whether that sense of connectedness comes from God or spirituality or their ice-fishing buddies almost doesn’t matter. People can find meaning in a myriad of ways. What does matter is that they’re not alone, that they’re part of a tribe, and that they’re doing something that’s deeply satisfying.”

That quote very accurately describes how I (and I’d venture to guess, many of you) feel about blogs—for me, thrift blogs and craft blogs most of all. When I discovered the world of crafty blogs, and subsequently the world of thrift blogs, I was absolutely blown away to find so many people who could get excited about finding a great piece of vintage Pyrex or an old children’s book at a thrift store or yard sale. It’s been so much fun to find people who think the way I do, who like the things I like, who understand my desire to drag home other people’s junk—because don’t we all seek understanding and acceptance?

I don’t have many friends in real life. Oh, there are plenty of people that I’m friendly with, but no one who shares my interests; who I can call up to share my excitement and thrill when I’ve found something great or finished a really cute project. However, I know I can post on my blog and there will be people who will read it and see the pictures and get excited along with me and leave encouraging comments just like I do when I look at their blogs. This whole blogging thing (both reading others’ and writing my own) has been so very fulfilling for me in so many ways.

So anyway—check out this book! The author’s style is fun and easy to read. I got through it really quickly, partly because the whole theory just struck such a chord with me. Try it—you’ll like it!